Sex That Works

Sex That Works

An Intimate Guide to Awakening your Erotic Life

eBook - 2017
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If you and your partner have lost that special spark, here is a book with the power to save your sex life-and your relationship. Sex That Works invites you to experience a new level of feeling and a new level of freedom in your sexuality. Wendy Strgar offers healing insights, potent practices (for you alone and with your partner), and guidance drawn from her marriage of over 30 years and her work with thousands of people to encourage the full awakening and expression of your erotic life. Nine core topics include: Freedom: Taking responsibility for your sexual evolution - Healing our harmful behaviors - Claiming erotic freedom - Overcoming silence - Giving yourself permission - Finding forgiveness, Pleasure: Pleasure as a medium of communication - Restoring our humanity - Orgasm - Relaxing our judgments about sexuality - The many benefits of self-pleasure - Owning the pleasure response - Calling pleasure by its true name - Transcendent orgasms - Broadening our sexual vocabulary - Pleasure as a fountain of youth. Finding your normal: The universal uncertainty - Bridging the erotic with the rational - Putting sexual health in context - The Sexual Identity Grid - The malady of sexual dysfunction - Trusting our erotic nature - Beyond right and wrong. Courage: The gift of choice - Growing up sexually - Living well with risks - Befriending our fear - The four attributes of courage - Desire as courage - Daily practice - Becoming who you really are - Healing erotic wounds - Letting our erotic self-teach us. Curiosity: Overcoming sexual boredom - Filling in the gaps of our sexual education - Exploration as the leader - Sensory intrigue - Opening as a creative act - Awakening to life, sexual and otherwise. Sensation: Awakening the senses - Out of the head and into the body - Trusting erotic impulses - Building a vocabulary of scent and taste - The healing language of touch - Erotic connections - Making noise - Negotiating shared sensations - Mindfulness - Falling into the body. Fantasy: Eliciting arousal through stories - Witnessing your fantasies - Fantasies as charged erotic fuel - The space between witnessing and enacting - Inner erotic landscapes - Uncovering the subconscious source of pleasure - Expressing desire - Submission and domination. Attention: Listening - Making the time - A radical leap - Creating a love container - Sustaining an atmosphere conducive to intimacy - Showing up vs. coexisting - Compassion as a way to connect - Sourcing from our center - Committing to something bigger than our selves. Gratitude: Letting go and receiving - Grateful sex - Healing through kindness - Receiving abundance - The importance of sexual freedom, revisited - A simple gratitude practice - A passionate love affair with your fleeting life
Publisher: [United States]: Sounds True , 2017
Characteristics: 1 online resource
ISBN: 9781622038909 (electronic bk.)
1622038908 (electronic bk.)
Call Number: eBook hoopla


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