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Tough Topics: Death in the Family

The darkest days for a family might well be the death of a loved one. There are no easy fixes for this pain, but these picture books can help explore the emotions and open opportunities for valuable dialog. We've also included resources to navigate this experience. You are not alone.

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  • A young girl loves spending time with her Uncle Mike on the beach until he gets cancer. Then Uncle Mike dies and the girl grieves, but she finds a way to say goodbye and move forward.
    Book, 2022Grand Rapids, Michigan : Eerdmans Books for Young Readers, 2022. — E FICTION ZOLLMAN
  • A young boy who has just lost his mother must find a way to deal with the grief. He imagines his grief as a gorilla who comes along and helps him work through his feelings about loss and remembering his mother.
    Book, 2020Somerville, Massachusetts : Candlewick Press, 2020. — E FICTION AZUA KRAMER
  • A young girl is unmoored after the death of her mother, and her father tries his best, but it's not the same. The girl and her father go to their lake house, where the girl longs for a connection to her mother.
    Book, 2023New York : Viking, 2023. — E FICTION THEULE
  • A young boy tries to cope with the death of his father through the creation of a pond in his yard that his father always dreamed of having. Beautiful and soothing.
    Book, 2017Llangennech, Llanelli, Carmarthenshire, Wales : Graffeg, 2017. — E FICTION DAVIES
  • After Nana dies, Xavier and his mother begin cleaning out her attic. Though Xavier doesn't want Nana to be gone, his mother tells him they'll keep her alive in their memories. As they go through the boxes, they also sort through their memories.
    Book, 2024Toronto : Tundra, [2024] — E FICTION KING
  • On Thursdays, a girl and her father visit their favorite spot: a fishing hole their mother found for them years ago. Though she is no longer with them, the two continue the tradition, sharing the comfort of memories and silence before returning home.
    Book, 2024New York : Two Lions, [2024] — E FICTION WARD
  • A picture book with simple, rhyming text that offers children comfort that even though our loved ones are gone, we can still feel them, and we will reunite with them again on the other side.
    Book, 2023New York : Crown Books for Young Readers, 2023. — E FICTION MONTEZ MINOR
  • Rainbow Letters

    a Book for Rainbow Babies

    Kelley, Ceece,
    Rhyming text and colorful illustrations follow a guardian angel sibling as she sews a hopeful message into the swaddle of her family's newborn, a rainbow baby (a baby born after the parents lost their previous child in pregnancy or infancy).
    Book, 2023Washington, D.C. : Soaring Kite Books, 2023. — E FICTION KELLEY
  • Illustrations and easy-to-read text highlight ways to find reminders of loved ones in everyday actions, even after they are gone.
    Book, 2020Washington, D.C. : Magination Press, [2020] — E FICTION HILL
  • Always Sisters

    a Story of Loss and Love

    Mir, Saira,
    With the help of her family, friends and school counselor, Raya finds a way to grieve the loss of her unborn sister, Nura, and to share the love she will always feel for her.
    Book, 2023New York : Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers, [2023] — E FICTION MIR
  • A little girl grows up with a lady with the biggest, loveliest laugh in the world. There were belly laughs, secret laughs and quiet giggles. When the lady dies, and the girl thinks she took laughter with her. Then, one day, the laugh comes back.
    Book, 2023London : Flying Eye Books, 2023. — E FICTION EVANS
  • A boy hears the voice of his deceased sister and asks his mother about death. His mother explains that death is like everything going quiet and like a dream. Later, the boy dreams of being with his sister, and she answers more questions for him.
    Book, 2020Montclair, New Jersey : Levine Querido, 2020. — E FICTION AERTS
  • Tender, beautiful story of a young girl missing her grandfather and realizing that grief is unique to all.
    Book, 2024Minneapolis : Beaming Books, 2024. — E FICTION MALONE
  • A real girl named Peyton, who loves art and makeup, describes her brother Carter, whom she lost to cancer.
    Book, 2024Mankato, MN : Amicus Learning, an imprint of Amicus, [2024] — E 155.937 SCHUH
  • After the loss of her mother, Piper feels empty inside. Seeing her grief, her father gives her a telescope, and through it, Piper finds a way to explore memories of her mother.
    Book, 2023New York, NY : WorthyKids, [2023] — E FICTION DAVIS
  • Following a family tradition, Grandpa gives Emilia a walnut, and they plant and care for it together. But as her little nut grows into a tree, Grandpa begins to slow down until one sad day, Emilia has to say goodbye.
    Book, 2022New York : Abrams Books for Young Readers, 2022. — E FICTION PAQUETTE
  • After his mother tells him the baby she was expecting went to be with the stars, a young boy writes a letter to his unborn sibling describing the things he was looking forward to doing together.
    Book, 2023Minneapolis, MN : Beaming Books, 2023. — E FICTION NEWSOME
  • When a little girl's daddy dies, she feels confused, sad and even mad. But with some time and help from Mommy, the little girl begins building dreams again and finds a way to take her daddy with her everywhere she goes.
    Book, 2023New York : Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers, [2023] — E FICTION BENTLEY
  • A young boy and his grandmother bond over bird watching. When his grandmother gets sick and moves into hospice, the boy brings the birds to his grandmother. After she passes away, the boy watches birds on a feeder outside his room and remembers her.
    Book, 2022Toronto : Kids Can Press, 2022. — E FICTION LARSEN
  • A young girl struggles with grief over losing a loved one and the fear that she might forget them, and she creates a memory box. Includes tips for adults to help children work through their grief over the death of someone they love.
    Book, 2017Minneapolis : Sparkhouse Family, 2017. — E FICTION ROWLAND